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DATING RED FLAGS
Posted by: | Comments1. Are you getting strange vibes about your “love interest”? Trust your instinct !
2. Do they ANSWER your questions? Do they change the subject or ignore them?
3. Do they tell stories differently each time?
4. Do they give you their home phone number or only a cell, business number or just an email address?
5. What is their marital status? Are they in a committed relationship?
6. Do they have children? Are they a part of their lives? If not why? Are they current in their child support?
7. Do they have a criminal record? Do they have DUI’s? Are they a child molester or sex offender?
8. Do they always seem short of money or forget their wallet and ask to borrow money (just for a little while)? Ask you to co-sign ? Filed bankruptcy? If so what type?
9. Have you seen signs of short temper, anger outbursts or violence?
All of the above are RED FLAGS and the warning bells should be sounding loud and clear. A background check can confirm their identity, integrity and financial stability.
Background Checks Keep you from Meeting “The Felon”
Posted by: | CommentsTo play it safe when dating strangers it is best to do a little homework first and find out as much as you can about the person you are about to meet. A background check keeps you from becoming a victim of foul play.
As a recently divorced woman in 2005, I moved to a new city and state where I only knew one person, I had no contacts for making new friends. In previous generations couples met mostly through family and friends in their neighborhoods or communities (where everyone knew each other), or at college. Usually someone knew all about who your latest heart throb was unless they were new in town.
